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Suarez e Djokovic: without a soul you don’t win

A few days ago an incredible soccer champion, Luis Suarez, passed away. In his interview with Gianni Mura in 2014, I was struck by two ideas that are important to me when talking about champions. The value of technique: “Without technique there is no appreciable soccer. Today, when I see so many crosses that end up behind the goal I change the channel.” The value of emotions: “Adventure is the right term, because in 1961 it’s not like Inter was at the top of Europe. It was aiming for it, that’s why it had taken the Wizard and, as a result, the Wizard had convinced me, but without big speeches. Then it was said that I was the soul of that Inter, but that was not true. That Inter had many souls, from Facchetti to Corso, from Picchi to Mazzola. I was the experience, that I think.” Suarez goes to Inter for adventure, for the Magician and to be one of its souls.

Champions allow us to make these arguments and understand the reasons why we need them.

The first concerns the issue of excellence in human performance. Champions allow us to know what the current limits of the human experience in sport are and show us how to go beyond them, in a seemingly endless chase for this improvement. The sciences that study the human being provide data that inspire the best coaches who use training methodology to improve those technical-tactical aspects Suarez speaks of.

The second concerns the soul of a team, which is embodied in the close relationship between thinking and emotions,. Everyone likes to win, but not everyone knows that in order to express themselves at their best, you have to put your soul into it. Those who do not follow this approach, which is very difficult to live by on a daily basis, fall into the trap of resentment toward themselves and those around them because they have not been able to avoid this problem. Novak Djokovic also describes this concept well by telling us:

“When we feel hurt, resentful, sad or feel that we have failed or disliked or whatever it is, we get trapped in that emotion. It happens to me too, no doubt, on and off the field, very often. It’s normal, it’s the life experience of all of us. But I always try to be aware of what I have said or done or the emotion I feel and not get trapped in it for too long. I go back. I get out of it. Because we cannot control what happens outside of us, but we can control how we react to those circumstances.”

Suarez and Djokovic, different generations of champions, however, affirm the same idea let’s have a dialogue between our thoughts and our emotions, let’s stay in touch and have a dialogue with our souls and the souls of our teammates and those who work with us.

Biting to win: learning from Suarez

The Suarez bite to  Chiellini is the reaction of those who is frustrated to satisfy his needs as a player and as the only reaction is the physical injury to the opponent. Suarez is in good company, along with Zidane and Cantona in football and Tyson in boxing, belongs to that small number of sport champions who cannot manage their emotions during times of increased competitive pressure. Their response is primordial, archaic, they have not made a simple foul of retaliation, such as the one that claimed the expulsion of Marchisio. They accomplished a rather primitive foul; bite the shoulder, or with the head knock down the opponent without the ball or kick during the game … one fan. The way to overcome these situations is to not live other moments of high tension, but if you’re a player you cannot. For them it’s easy to understand, because we are talking about champions but to control the behaviors, stopping the impulsive reactions is not easy. For them, it’s usual to cope with the obstacles in the satisfaction of their own needs and be able to deal with. But what does the mind say in those moments? It tells him sadly “go and shoot because otherwise you’ll be to succumb and only if you are hard, others will respect you.” They have been hildren whose parents were absents or authoritarians but knowing it does not help, you need instead to recognize that now you are an adult responsible for your reactions, and that whatever the education received is now time to take responsibility for these actions. Suarez has been banned for 10 days for a bite to an opponent and he even went to a psychologist but it was not enough. It does not help to change the being overpaid and being accepted because in any case you scored a lot of goals, but you forget the person to favor the player. How many goals worth a bite, a behavior that is anti sport behavior? Is this the champion style we want to educate our child?

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