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In soccer it is not just about market and capital gains to make a great team.

Summer time, time to choose new footballers. In the media one reads everything in relation to the qualities of those one would like to have on the team. Personally, I do not understand anything about the technical-tactical characteristics of those being talked about. However, it amazes me that their human qualities are rarely talked about in depth.

On the contrary, the success that the memory of our national soccer team’s 1982 World Cup victory in Spain and the continued emphasis on the ethical value and the sharing of a common idea brought forward by Bearzot are proof of how necessary the concept of cohesion and unity of purpose is these very days.

Today, however, capital gains, the role played by prosecutors and, in any case, economic interests seem to dominate as a priority. Important aspects, but if then the players do not cooperate, one has built on sand. Utopia, I don’t think, we have to recognize that we are what we are because of others. It is such a necessary idea that was applied in South Africa by Desmond Tutu and Nelson Mandela in the struggle against apartheid. So many times Nelson Mandela himself spoke of Ubuntu philosophy as a fundamental cornerstone for the realization of human rights. It means to take the best of a person and bring it into me while at the same time that person can take from me what he or she considers useful and important and bring it into himself or herself.

It is called Ubuntu and expresses the philosophy of sharing what one has so that together we can become better. Applied to soccer it means that everyone is who they are because of the contributions of others. Unknowingly, the Spain ’82 World Cup national soccer team lived by the Ubuntu philosophy.

Don’t tire of repeating

Hemingway is often quoted when talking about outstanding performance because he defined it in terms of 10% talent and 90% sweat. In this regard, he wrote about how strong this belief of his was.

“I wrote the last page of Farewell to Arms 39 times before I was satisfied.”

It is a sentence that all those athletes who when they make a mistake get down and think they are not capable enough should know and comment on. You have to do and keep redoing until you come to deliver the best performance of which you are capable.

Stopping at the first mistake only serves to put a smile on the faces of opponents who will know they have one less contender.

The competitive anxiety

On the topic of “winning is the only thing that matters,” much has been said about young athletes who rightly should not be burdened with the idea of results, while they should focus on doing their best. I think, on the other hand, it has been little discussed in relation to absolute competitive sport and in reference to that limited but in the public eye represented by the very strong athletes. The Americans in their pragmatism coined the phrase: “from hero to zero” to identify that fine line on which these athletes walk who have an obligation to win.

Athletes know this rule of the game well, and no matter how talented and successful they are, they know they cannot match these expectations that would have them always on the podium, beautiful and smiling. It is because of this pressure they have to live with that suddenly their weaknesses emerge, those of Pellegrini with the anxiety attacks, those of Inter where the system of collaboration on the field that allowed the results of last season and many others has jammed. The easiest antidote to resort to is illegal doping and drug abuse.

The ecological antidote is living in an understanding and loving social environment (family and friends). It may not be enough, because the athlete must learn to live with this existential angst, which can be called competitive angst, which consists of knowing that one cannot always match one’s own expectations and those of others. One has to learn more about accepting one’s own limitations, especially those who are committed to enlarging them more and more. As Sartre said, one must want everything knowing that one cannot achieve it.

The confidence explained by the champions

In this text from 10 years ago I talked about a theme that seems to be lacking in many young athletes today. Let us reflect on the value of these thoughts and compare them with our own beliefs.

“In my career I have missed more than 9,000 shots. I have missed about 300 games. Twenty-six times I believed I was making the shot-game and missed it. In my life I have failed often and continued to fail. And that is why I have been successful” (Michael Jordan, basketball).

“Champions are not made in gyms; they are made of something deep inside them, a desire, a dream, a vision” (Muhammad Ali, boxing).

“Because I am an eternal dissatisfaction, I derive my satisfaction from the success of my projects, often in adversity, it is true. I have often had to face them. When it happened, for me coming from Guadeloupe, an island where everything is beautiful, adapting to the red bricks of INSEP, changing the coach and fighting against racism … I found myself small inside something that was not made for me, but I am hard-headed, a missed boy and I climbed. In fact, everyone who tried to demotivate me, because I was young or because I was black, on the contrary, reinforced me in my determination” (Laura Flessel, fencing).

“After achieving a goal I start from scratch. Using current language, I would say I reset. Once the excitement, the celebration, has passed, I go back to the field by setting myself intermediate goals, such as winning an international competition. To understand it better, it is as if I am at the base of a ladder, ready to climb all the way to the top floor. I then concentrate on tackling the first step of the ladder that will eventually take me step by step to the top floor, my ultimate goal” (Francesco D’Aniello, shooting).

“Another episode that I remember fondly and that teaches that in life nothing is impossible concerns the 1956 Giro d’Italia. It was the last Giro of my career and coming down from Volterra I fell and fractured my collarbone. The next day I relapsed on that fracture and stopped the ambulance that wanted to take me to the hospital. I faced the climb up Monte Bondone with a broken collarbone and finished the Giro in second place. You always have to look ahead and never rest. I’m now aiming for 100 years, and that’s no joke” (Gianni Magni, cliclism ).

“Graziano is a good father and has been fundamental to my career. He was a very talented rider who, however, through bad luck-injuries, crashes and accidents-didn’t win what he was supposed to win. I came to finish the job he started. Humanly he taught me that you have to do things having fun, be serious, work, but at the same time without taking yourself too seriously. I made his way of thinking my own.” (Valentino Rossi)

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The dissemination of sports culture also occurs through the dissemination of ideas and experiences concerning the psychological and relational aspects of sports.

This is the principle that guided me in building this blog. In this month I am happy because I reached 11,235 different visitors and 30145 contacts.

It means having every day more than 1,000 people who read this blog, and I thank them because they suggest to me that sport psychology also arouses enormous interest when it is proposed in a non-shouty and superficial way. This is also confirmed by the 153,145 contacts I have achieved in these first six months of 2022.

I thank those who follow me and hope to continue to arouse their interest.