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Sport is social

The opening speech of @TizianoPesce president of UISP whose congress assembly opened today:

“Sport reform must come to recognize the social value of sport, that’s why we talk about transition, we strongly believe that sport is an important vehicle.”

The beauty of this statement is that it applies to all categories of people who carry out from simple motor activity for purely personal pleasure, to those who use sport as a rehabilitative tool, to young adolescent athletes at whatever level they compete but also to professional athletes and female athletes.

Sport once again is for everyone because everyone’s well-being and mental health is a social value that concerns Messi and De Maria as much as those who are far from these absolute levels but like to go out for a walk.

On this basis, the pursuit of well-being, we are all equal and the value placed on one’s community of belonging knows no distinction.

It is a valuable asset let us it.not only defend it but spread it out.

Youngs spend few time outdoor

Often the countries of Northern Europe hit me for the simple and direct questions that arise, as well as the solutions they find. Some time ago, in Britain they have asked themselves the question: How often your children play outside? More or less than when you were a child? Have safety fears make you keep your children at home? The government cuts have reduced opportunities to play sports close to home?

So there it arises the problem of the need to increase the time that young people spend outdoors and in a natural environment because it is considered as necessary for their well-being and development of personal autonomy. Therefore it is hoped that adults are increasingly aware of this need and act accordingly.

In the same in  Italy we are still debating whether to increase the hours of physical education to school without reaching a settlement, when we enter … maybe someone will put this further question, namely that for the youngs are not given enough hours and we will have to do something more. Perhaps our grandchildren will enjoy  of this changes … those who in the meantime did not leave for another country.

Meanwhile, follow in Britain: https://loveoutdoorlearning.com/

The specificity of the coach-athlete relationship in Italy

In Italy there is still a craftsmanship conception of high-level sport particularly true in individual sports. In most cases, the development and success of an athlete is based on a deep collaborative relationship with his/her coach. It is not uncommon that the coach is the husband of the athlete or the parent (father/mother). It’s obvious that this system is subject to all interference that are typical of the dual relationships.

The psychological components of each of these relationships have unbelievable significance, because the training is to build situations with predetermined levels of stress that the athlete must successfully deal to improve in his/her performances.

In this context, the coaches have a reduced exchange of ideas and discussion with other colleagues and the use of innovations produced by the sports science depends only on their curiosity and desire to upgrade. The limitation of this approach lies not only in the limited use of the contributions of science by the coaches but also the failure of researchers to listen and understand what are the needs and demands of the coaches.

In other words, there is need to talk together, to share ideas, to criticize each other in a constructive way and to build work plans based on collaboration.

How it’s difficult to be competitive

“To accomplish something difficult. Mastering, manipulating, or organizing physical objects, human beings, or ideas. Do it as quickly and independently as possible. Go beyond obstacles and maintain high standards. Excelling for oneself. To rival and surpass others. Increase awareness through observing one’s own successful experiences that are the result of one’s talents.”

H.A. Murray said in 1938.

I dedicate these words to the young athletes in Italy who in team sports play little because of foreigners.

In individual sports certainly they can compete, since no one can take away their team place, sometimes they train alone or alone, at best with coaches and trainers equally willing but alone too.

Best wishes and may your persistence and dedication always be your friend.

Emotional coaching for young people

Simeone, manager of Atletico Madrid, said that “you can win by losing if you give it your all.” It is a key concept in the development of an athlete and should be taught from the very first day a boy or girl enters a playing field. On the contrary, we see young people who as soon as they make a mistake become angry with themselves or depressed. We know that this happens because of the conjunction of different reasons:

parents often do not recognize the value of effort and think that it only matters to win, so they get angry at their children for their mistakes and would like to take the place of the coach to give them technical guidance,
coaches are more focused on teaching technique and do not emotionally coach athletes,
young people themselves are unable to express their emotions constructively and lack self-control.
And so we see young tennis players slamming their rackets to the ground after a mistake alternating between angry and depressed moods against themselves or in other sports made one mistake almost quickly follows others, because frustration due to the first mistake dominates in athletes. Changing this way of experiencing defeats and mistakes requires parents and coaches who are more aware that their role includes teaching self-control, working with their children and athletes to change these destructive behaviors.

One certainly does not have to impose our adult solutions to their problems. We need to listen empathetically and not to judge, so that young people feel supported and respected in their states of mind. Only after this stage should we start talking about what could be done differently, giving time for the young people to express their ideas and for us to stimulate their awareness in regard to how they act and identify possible solutions. Acting in this way takes time, and it is often for this reason that adults do not follow this path.

We need to be aware, however, that if we often refrain from intervening, young people will begin to think that their reactions do not interest their parents and coaches, and worse, they will continue to behave negatively toward themselves. If we want our young people to develop the ability to deal effectively and satisfactorily with their daily stresses, we must spend time teaching them how to behave, feel and think in those moments.

The role of the coaches

It is clear from what was written in the previous blog that a key role is played by those who lead groups in building a working climate that is helpful in sustaining motivation and providing adequate reinforcements to meet personal needs. In school, teachers who frequently exhibit controlling behaviors tend to build a controlling climate in the classroom, which reduces intrinsic motivation. It only takes a few weeks to bring about these kinds of effects, which in turn have an influence on students’ perceptions of competence. Therefore, extrinsic reinforcers can play a hindering or promoting function on intrinsic motivation depending on whether they are provided in a climate that is controlling or encouraging personal autonomy. If we want young people, including athletes, not only follow the rules proposed by their teachers but also actively integrate them into their personal belief systems, it is necessary that the environment in which they carry out their activities be oriented toward the development of personal competence and autonomy. Coaches should organize activities that solicit the interest of their athletes, reducing the frequency of those feedbacks that stimulate young people to get involved only out of duty, for the positive effects that will result or to satisfy the ambitions of the coach or parents.

Unfortunately, negative experiences in the sports community are not so uncommon. It becomes important to understand how the social and interpersonal context can foster the occurrence of these kinds of experiences. Again, self-determination theory makes it possible to explain “not only growth and well-being but equally the destructive, alienating and pathogenic effects of the need to hinder…” … In fact, deprivation of the fulfillment of basic needs for competence, autonomy and closeness to others can lead to choices that are often defensive and self-protective, fostering the onset of emotional disturbances and reduced personal well-being. This would lead to the prevalence of controlling motivation and rigid behaviors that in turn hinder the need for satisfaction, favoring the processes of extrinsic regulation (behaviors motivated by fear and rewards) and introjection (behaviors motivated by guilt and feeling obligated). Low levels of satisfaction, however, should not be confused with the athlete’s perception of feeling hindered in his or her activity. An athlete may feel dissatisfied because he or she perceives himself or herself as not competent to deliver the performance he or she expects, despite having worked hard to achieve this goal. Different is the condition of an athlete who attributes this difficulty to obstacles due to the behavior of the coach, whom he or she perceives as insufficiently oriented to make him/her improve. The former is a situation of dissatisfaction while the latter is a situation in which the athlete has been hindered in achieving the need for competence … To be dissatisfied means that something did not go as well as it should have while to hinder means to prevent something from happening. Therefore, feeling hindered consists of an emotional condition in which the person feels oppressed, inadequate, rejected or frustrated in a given context.

Top-level athletes need, like others, constructive support from their coach. A national team coach himself once told me:

“You see Alberto, he during the race, every now and then he looks for me with his eyes and I’m there to give him a nod or a gesture reminding him what to do, he then continues on his own and I see that it’s fine.”

Other athletes, however, say:

“When you need him, he’s never there, you look for him with your eyes and you see him on the phone or talking to someone….”

These two opposing experiences show how easy it is for a coach to engage in behavior that either supports the need for competence and closeness or hinders it. Top-level athletes recognize the central role of their coach, attributing to him or her not only the skills in organizing and conducting excellent workouts but equally emphasizing his or her motivational role … This constructive attitude was well described by Adrian Moorhouse when he talked about his coach:

“He believed in my potential, worked on my beliefs, helped me set goals that challenged me, encouraged and supported me, evaluated my performance, created the environment, and helped me take responsibility. The only thing he didn’t do … is swim races for me.”

(Da Alberto Cei, Fondamenti di psicologia dello sport, 2021)

Fighting against the stereotype about the young

We often don’t teach boys/and girls to think. I often hear coaches continue with those phrases they used to say to me 50 years ago, too.

  1. “With experience you learn.”
  2. “Just do it once and then you get it”
  3. “It would be enough for him/her to win once and then he/she would be unblocked”
  4. “I was like that at your age, too”
  5. “You’re only 16 … we can’t expect that …”
  6. “It’s age they are caught up in hormones”
  7. “He/she doesn’t think (He/She doesn’t listen), they are all the same”
  8. “Too impatient (Too sleepy)”
  9. “Calm (Wake up)”
  10. “Hopefully mature”

Instead, let’s learn from the coach of tennis legend Rod Laver how to be taught to be more competitive.

Hollis believed these were the traits of good tennis players. He would share stories of great players with Rod to illustrate the significance of these traits. At every opportunity Hollis re-enforced the rewards to be gained by chasing down every ball, remaining positive, relishing the challenge of working hard, never giving up and learning from defeats. Hollis instilled in Rod, when things did not go his way, he had to knuckle down and play even more intensely. Importantly, it was not necessarily about winning; it was also about learning. Aided by his coach’s holistic approach to teaching the game, Rod gained an understanding that “tennis is as much a mental game as a physical one.” (Janet A. Young, Pearls of Wisdom from Rod Laver)